Please refer to 5#. r8168 has been tried (actually tired many times).
> install network driver r8168 v8.026.00 from Realtek (confrim with "ethtool -i eth0") -> packet drop
Anyway, once again. Please see the result below for r8168 fyr.
Network
update latest firmware on Netgear WNDR3700 and also tried DD-WRT -> packet drop
use and old 100M route from PCCW -> packet drop
NFS/SMB share media files from U-NAS to Xtreamer -> packet drop
CIFS share media files for ASUS desktop (Windows 7) to Xtreamer -> ok
Use 3m Cat 6 cable direct connect U-NAS to ASUS desktop -> packet drop